di**issive「equitable」
灵魂伴侣的英文单词是什么?
companion 英 [kəm'pæniən] 美 [kəm'pæniən]
释义：n. 同伴；志趣相投的人；成对物品之一；参考书 ；v. 陪伴
过去式: companioned 过去分词: companioned 现在分词: companioning 第三人称单数: companions
例句
用作名词 (n.)
1、He is a good companion on the journey.
他是个好旅伴。
2、He had always considered her an ideal companion for his son.
他一直以为她是他儿子的理想伴侣。
3、The dog has been her constant companion these past ten years.
过去十年来,这只狗一直与她形影不离。
4、His brother is not much of a companion for him.
他兄弟与他情趣不甚相投。
用作动词 (v.)
1、I worked as a companion to an old princess.
我当过一位老公爵夫人的陪伴人。
2、When I grew up, my mother told me it was unseemly for young girls to go about alone at night or travel without an older companion.
当我长大后，我母亲告诉我，年轻女孩儿独自在晚上出门或是远行而没有年长人的陪伴，这都是不体面的。
扩展资料：
近义词partner的用法
partner 英 ['pɑːtnə(r)] 美 ['pɑːrtnər]
释义：n. 伙伴；搭档；伴侣；合伙人 ；v. 同 ... 合作；做 ... 的搭档
过去式: partnered 过去分词: partnered 现在分词: partnering 第三人称单数: partners
例句
用作名词 (n.)
1、He has a competent partner who always organizes everything well for him.
他有个很能干的伙伴,总是替他把一切弄得井井有条。
2、Will you be my partner in the next dance?
下一支曲子时可否请你跟我一起跳舞?
用作动词 (v.)
1、They have to partner with the government, even if they are di**issive of its bureaucracy.
他们同政府合作,即使他们看不惯政府的****。
2、Gerry offered to partner me at tennis.
格里提出和我一起搭档打网球
狂求表示心情的英语形容词
A
aback
abandoned
abashed
abducted
abhorred
abject
able
abnormal
abominable
about
abrasive
absent-minded
absolved
absorbed
absorbent
abstemious
abstract
abstracted
abused
abusive
aby**al
abyssal
accelerated
acceptable
accepted
accepting
accessible
accident-prone
acclaimed
acclimated
accommodated
accommodating
accomplished
accosted
accosting
accountable
accusatory
accused
accusing
acerbic
aching
acknowledged
acquiescent
acquisitive
acrimonious
activated
active
actualized
adamant
addicted
adept
adequate
admirable
admiration
admired
admiring
admonished
adorable
adored
adoring
adrift advanced
adventurous
adverse
affable
affected
affection
affectionate
affirmed
afflicted
affluent
affronted
afraid
against
agape
aggravated
aggressive
aghast
agitated
aglow
agnostic
agog
agonized
agony
agoraphobic
agreeable
ahead
aimless
airy
alarmed
alert
alienated
alive
allied
allured
alluring
alone
aloof
altruistic
amazed
amazing
ambiguous
ambitious
ambivalent
ambushed
amenable
amiable
amorous
amused
amusing
****yzed
anarchistic
anesthetized
angry
anguish
anguished
anhedonic
animated
annihilated
annoyed
annoying
anonymous
antagonistic
antagonized
anticipation
antiquated
antisocial
antsy
anxiety
anxious
apart
apathetic
apologetic
appalled
appealed
appealing
appeased
applauded
appraised
appreciated
appreciative
apprehension
apprehensive
approachable
appropriate
approved
approved of
archaic
ardent
argued with
argumentative
aristocratic
aroused
arrogant
artful
articulate
artificial
artistic
artless
ascetic
ashamed
asinine
asocial
assaulted
assertive
assessed
assuaged
assured
astonished
astounded
at ease
at home
at peace
at peril
at risk
at war
atrophied
attached
attacked
attentive
attracted
attractive
audacious
austere
authentic
authoritarian
authoritative
autocratic
available
avaricious
avid
avoided
awake
awakened
aware
awe
awed
awesome
awestruck
awful
awkward
B
babied
backward
bad
badgered
baffled
baited
balanced
bamboozled
banished
bankrupt
banned
bantered
bare
barraged
barred
barren
bashful
battered
battle-weary
battle-worn
bearable
beaten
beaten down
beatific
beautiful
beckoned
bedazzled
bedeviled
befriended
befuddled
beguiled
behind
beholden
beleaguered
belittled
belligerent
belonging
beloved
bemused
benevolent
bent
berated
bereaved
bereft
beseeched
beset
besieged
be**irched
bestial
betrayed
better
bewildered
bewitched
bewitching
biased
big
bitchy
bitter
blackmailed
blah
blamed
blaming
blank
blasé‚
blasphemous
blasted
bleak
blind
bliss
blissful
blithe
blocked
blown away
blue
boastful
bogus
boiling
boisterous
bold
bombastic
bonkers
bored
boring
bossed-around
bossy
bothered
bothersome
bought
bound
bound-up
boxed-in
braced
brainwashed
brash
brave
brazen
breathless
breezy
bridled
bright
brilliant
brisk
bristling
broken
broken-down
broken-up
brooding
bruised
brushed-off
brutal
bubbly
bugged
buggered
bullied
bullish
bullshitted
bummed
bummed out
buoyant
burdened
burdensome
buried
burned
burned-out
burned-up
bursting
bushed
bypassed
C
caged
cajoled
calculating
callous
callow
calm
calmed down
canny
cantankerous
capable
capricious
captious
captivated
captured
cared about
cared for
carefree
careful
careless
caring
carried away
cast
cast about
cast out
castigated
categorized
caught
cautious
cavalier
censored
censured
centered
certain
chafed
chagrined
chained
challenged
challenging
changed
changing
chaotic
charged
chari**atic
charitable
charmed
charming
chased
chaste
chastised
chatty
cheap
cheapened
cheated
cheated on
cheeky
cheerful
cheerless
cheery
cherished
chic
chicken
chided
childish
childless
childlike
chipper
chivalrous
choked
choked-up
chosen
churlish
circumspect
circumvented
civil
civilized
classy
claustrophobic
clean
cleansed
clear
clear-headed
clenched
clever
close
closed
closed in
closed-minded
clouded
clueless
clumsy
coarse
cocky
coddled
coerced
cold
cold-blooded
cold-hearted
collapsed
collapsing
collected
combative
comfortable
comforted
comfy
committed
common
commonplace
communicative
comparative
compared
compassionate
compatible
compelled
competent
competitive
complacent
complete
complex
compliant
complicated
complementary
complimented
complimentary
composed
compressed
compulsive
conceited
concentrated
concerned
condemned
condescended to
condescending
confident
confined
confirmed
confirming
conflicted
conforming
confused
congenial
connected
conned
conniving
conquered
conscientious
consecrated
conservative
considerate
considered
consistent
consoled
consoling
conspicuous
constrained
constricted
constructive
consumed
contained
contaminated
contemplative
contempt
contemptible
contemptuous
content
contented
contentious
contrite
controlled
controlling
convenient
conventional
convicted
convinced
convincing
cool
cooperative
cordial
cornered
correct
corrupt
corrupted
counterfeit
counter-productive
courageous
courteous
courtly
coveted
covetous
cowardly
coy
cozy
crabby
crafty
cranky
crappy
crass
craving
crazed
crazy
creative
credulous
crestfallen
criminal
crippled
critical
criticized
cross
crossed
cross-examined
crotchety
crowded
crucified
crude
cruel
crushed
cryptic
cuckoo
cuddled
cuddly
culled
culpable
cultivated
cultured
cunning
curious
cursed
cut
cut-down
cute
cut-off
cynical
D
daffy
dainty
damaged
damned
dangerous
dared
daring
dark
dashed
dashing
daunted
dauntless
dazed
dead
dear
debased
debated
debauched
debilitated
debonair
deceitful
deceived
decent
deceptive
decided
decimated
decrepit
dedicated
defamed
defeated
defective
defenseless
defensive
deferent
defiant
deficient
defiled
definite
deflated
deformed
degenerate
degraded
dehumanized
dejected
delicate
delighted
delightful
delinquent
delirious
delivered
deluded
demanding
demeaned
demented
demoralized
demoted
demotivated
demure
denatured
denigrated
denounced
denurtured
dependable
dependent
depleted
deported
depraved
deprecated
depreciated
depressed
deprived
derailed
derided
desecrated
deserted
deserving
desirable
desire
desired
desirous
desolate
despair
despairing
desperate
despicable
despised
despondent
destroyed
destructive
detached
deteriorated
determined
detest
detestable
detested
devastated
deviant
devious
devoid
devoted
devoured
diagnosed
dictated to
dictatorial
different
difficult
diffident
dignified
diligent
dim
diminished
diplomatic
direct
directionless
dirty
disabled
disaffected
disagreeable
disappointed
disappointing
disapproved of
disapproving
di**elieved
di**elieving
discarded
disciplined
discombobulated
disconcerted
disconnected
disconsolate
discontent
discontented
discounted
discouraged
discredited
discreet
disdain
disdained
disdainful
disempowered
disenchanted
disenfranchised
disentangled
disfavored
disgraced
disgruntled
disgust
disgusted
disgusting
disharmonious
disheartened
disheveled
dishonest
dishonorable
dishonored
disillusioned
disinclined
disingenuous
disintegritous *
disinterested
disjointed
dislike
disliked
dislocated
dislodged
disloyal
di**al
di**ayed
di**issed
di**issive
disobedient
disobeyed
disorderly
disorganized
disoriented
disowned
disparaged
dispassionate
dispensable
dispirited
displaced
displeased
disposable
dispossessed
disputed
disregarded
disrespected
disruptive
dissatisfied
dissected
dissed
dissident
dissociated
distant
distorted
distracted
distraught
distressed
distrusted
distrustful
disturbed
diverted
divided
divorced
docile
dogged
dogmatic
doleful
domestic
domesticated
dominant
dominated
dominating
domineered
domineering
done
doomed
double-crossed
doubted
doubtful
dowdy
down
downcast
downhearted
downtrodden
drained
dramatic
drawn away
drawn back
drawn in
drawn toward
dread
dreaded
dreadful
dreamy
dreary
dried-up
driven
droopy
dropped
drowning
drubbed
drummed
dubious
dull
dumb
dumbfounded
dumped
dumped on
duped
dutiful
dwarfed
dynamic
E
eager
early
earnest
earthy
eased
easy
easy-going
ebullient
eccentric
eclectic
eclipsed
ecstatic
edgy
edified
edifying
educated
effaced
effective
effeminate
effervescent
efficacious
efficient
effusive
egocentric
egotistic
egotistical
elastic
elated
elderly
electric
electrified
elegant
elevated
elitist
eloquent
elusive
emancipated
emasculated
embarrassed
embittered
eminent
emmerlinged
emotional
emotionless
emotive
empathetic
empathic
emphatic
empowered
empty
enabled
enamored
enchanted
enclosed
encompassed
encouraged
encroached upon
encumbered
endangered
energetic
energized
enervated
engaged
engrossed
enhanced
enigmatic
enjoyment
enlightened
enmeshed
ennobled
enraged
enraptured
enriched
enslaved
entangled
enterprising
entertained
enthralled
enthusiastic
enticed
entitled
entombed
entrapped
entrenched
entrepreneurial
entrusted
envied
envious
equipped
equitable
eradicated
erasable
erased
eros
essential
established
esteemed
estranged
ethereal
euphoric
evaded
evaluated
evasive
evicted
evil
eviscerated
exacerbated
exacerbating
examined
exasperated
exasperating
excellent
excessive
excitable
excited
excluded
excoriated
exculpated
execrated
exempt
exempted
exhausted
exhilarated
exiled
exonerated
exorcised
exotic
expansive
expectant
experienced
experimental
exploitative
exploited
explosive
exposed
expressive
expunged
extraordinary
extravagant
extricated
extroverted
exuberant
exultant
Emmerlinged: A new word I made up when Rob Emmerling was trying to discredit me in April 2005. I would define it as "being misrepresented by someone who feels threatened by you in an attempt to discredit you so as to protect that person's own interests."
F
fabulous
facetious
factious
failful *
faint
fainthearted
fair
faithful
fake
fallen
fallible
fallow
false
falsely
falsely accused
faltering
famished
famous
fanatical
fanciful
fantabulous
fantasizing
fantastic
farcical
fascinated
fascinating
fascination
fashionable
fast
fastidious
fatalistic
fathered
fatherless
fatigued
fatuous
favored
fawned
fawned over
fawning
fear
feared
fearful
fearless
fed up
feeble
feeling
feisty
felicitous
feminine
fermenting
ferocious
fervent
festive
fettered
fickle
fidgety
fiendish
fierce
fiery
filthy
fine
finicky
finished
fired
firm
first
first-class
first-rate
fit
fixated
flabbergasted
flagellated
flaky
flamboyant
flammable
flappable
flat
flattered
flawed
fledgling
fleeced
flexible
flighty
flippant
flipped-out
flirtatious
floored
floundering
flourishing
flush
flustered
fluttering
focused
focussed
foiled
followed
fond
foolhardy
foolish
forbidden
forced
forceful
foreign
fore-sighted
forgetful
forgettable
forgivable
forgiven
forgiving
forgotten
forlorn
formed
formidable
forsaken
fortified
fortunate
forward
fouled-up
fractured
fragile
fragmented
frail
framed
frank
frantic
fraudulent
frazzled
free
frenetic
frenzied
fresh
fretful
fretting
friendless
friendly
frightened
frigid
frisky
frivolous
frolicsome
frowning
frugal
frustrated
fulfilled
full
fuming
fun
funky
funloving
funny
furious
fury
fussy
futile
G
gallant
galled
game
gauche
gaudy
gawky
gay
generous
genial
gentle
genuine
giddy
gifted
giggly
gilded
giving
glad
glamorous
gleeful
glib
gloomy
glorious
glowing
glum
gluttonous
goaded
good
good-looking
good-natured
gorgeous
graceful
gracious
graded
grand
grandiose
granted
grateful
gratified
grave
great
greedy
gregarious
grief
grief-stricken
grieved
grieving
grim
groovy
gross
grossed-out
grotesque
grouchy
grounded
groveling
grumpy
guarded
guided
guilt-free
guilt-tripped
guiltless
guilty
gullible
gushy
gutless
gutsy
gutted
gypped
H
haggard
haggled
hallowed
hampered
handicapped
hapless
happy
happy-go-lucky
harangued
harassed
hard
hardened
hard-headed
hard-hearted
hard-pressed
hard-working
hardy
harmless
harmonious
harnessed
harried
hassled
hasty
hate
hated
hateful
hatred
haughty
haunted
headstrong
heady
healed
health-conscious
healthy
heard
heartbroken
heartened
heartful
heartless
heartsick
heart-to-heart
hearty
heavy
heavy-hearted
heckled
heeded
held dear
helped
helpful
helpless
henpecked
herded
heroic
hesitant
hideous
high
high-spirited
hilarious
hindered
hoaxed
hollow
homely
homesick
honest
honorable
honored
hoodwinked
hopeful
hopeless
horrible
horrified
horror
horror-stricken
hospitable
hostile
hot-headed
hounded
huge
humane
humble
humbled
humiliated
humored
humorous
hung up
hungry
hunted
hurried
hurt
hustled
hyped-up
hyper
hyperactive
hypervigilent
hypnotized
hypocritical
hysterical
I
idealistic
idiosyncratic
idiotic
idolized
ignorant
ignored
ill
ill at ease
ill-humored
illicit
ill-tempered
imaginative
imbalanced
immaculate
immature
immobile
immobilized
immodest
immoral
immortal
immune
impaired
impartial
impassioned
impassive
impatient
impeccable
impeded
impelled
imperfect
imperiled
imperious
impermanent
impermeable
impertinent
imperturbable
impervious
impetuous
impious
implacable
impolite
important
imposed-upon
imposing
impotent
impressed
imprisoned
impudent
impugned
impulsive
impure
in
in a huff
in a quandary
in a stew
in control
in despair
in doubt
in fear
in harmony
in pain
in the dumps
in the way
in touch
in tune
inaccessible
inadequate
inappropriate
inattentive
incapable
incapacitated
incensed
incoherent
incommunicative
incompetent
incomplete
inconclusive
inconsiderate
inconsistent
inconsolable
inconspicuous
inconvenienced
inconvenient
incorrect
incorrigible
incredible
incredulous
inculcated
indebted
indecent
indecisive
indefinite
independent
indescribable
indestructible
indicted
indifferent
indignant
indirect
indiscreet
indoctrinated
indolent
indulgent
industrious
inebriated
ineffective
inept
infallible
infamous
infantile
infantilized
infatuated
infected
inferior
infirm
inflamed
inflammatory
inflated
inflexible
influenced
influential
informed
infuriated
infused
ingenious
ingenuous
ingratiated
ingratiating
inhibited
inhospitable
inhumane
inimical
injured
innocent
innovative
inquiring
inquisitive
insane
insatiable
insecure
insensitive
inside-out
insightful
insignificant
insincere
insistent
insolent
insouciant
inspired
instilled
instructive
insufficient
insulted
insulting
insurgent
intact
integritous *
intellectual
intelligent
intense
intent
interested
interesting
interfered with
interfering
interrelated
interrogated
interrupted
intimate
intimidated
intimidating
intolerant
intrepid
intrigued
introspective
introverted
intruded upon
intrusive
intuitive
invalidated
invalidating
inventive
invigorated
invisible
invited
inviting
involved
invulnerable
irascible
irate
irked
irrational
irreligious
irreproachable
irresistible
irresolute
irresponsible
irreverent
irritable
irritated
isolated
J
jaded
jaundiced
jaunty
jealous
jealousy
jeered
jeopardized
jerked around
jilted
jinxed
jittery
jocular
jolly
jolted
jostled
jovial
joyful
joyless
joyous
jubilant
judged
judgmental
judicious
juggled
jumpy
just
justified
K
keen
kept
kept away
kept out
kicked
kicked around
kidded
kind
kindhearted
kindly
kinky
knackered
knocked
knocked down
knocked out
knowledgeable
L
labeled
lackadaisical
lacking
lackluster
lagging behind
laid-back
lambasted
lame
lamentful *
lamenting
languid
languishing
lascivious
late
laughed at
lavished
lax
lazy
leaned on
leaning
lecherous
lectured to
leery
left out
legitimate
let down
lethargic
level-headed
lewd
liable
liberal
liberated
licentious
lied about
lied to
lifeless
lifted
light
light-hearted
likable
liked
limited
limp
lionhearted
listened to
listless
lively
livid
loath
loathed
loathsome
logical
lonely
lonesome
longing
loopy
loose
loosed
lorded over
lost
loud
lousy
lovable
love
loved
loveless
lovely
loving
low
lowly
low-spirited
loyal
luckless
lucky
ludicrous
luminous
lured
luring
lust
lustful
lusty
lynched
M
macho
mad
made fun of
magical
magnificent
maimed
maladjusted
malcontent
malevolent
malicious
malignant
maligned
manageable
managed
managerial
mangled
maniacal
manic
manipulable
manipulated
manipulative
manly
marauding
marauding
marginalized
married
marvelous
masochistic
masterful
materialistic
maternal
mature
maudlin
meager
mean
mechanical
medicated
mediocre
meditative
meek
melancholic
melancholy
melded
mellow
melodramatic
menaced
menacing
merciful
merry
me**erized
messy
methodical
meticulous
micro-managed
miffed
mighty
mindful
minimized
mirthful
misanthropic
mischievous
misdiagnosed
miserable
miserly
misgiving
misinformed
misinterpreted
misled
misrepresented
mistaken
mistreated
mistrusted
mistrustful
misunderstood
misused
mixed-up
mobilized
mocked
mocking
modern
modest
molded
molested
mollified
monitored
monopolized
moody
moping
moral
moralistic
N
nagged
nailed
naive
naked
nameless
nannied
narcissistic
narrow-minded
nasty
natural
naughty
nauseated
neat
needed
needled
needy
negated
negative
neglected
negligent
nervous
nervy
nestled
nettled
neurotic
neutral
nice
niggardly
nihilistic
nit-picked
nit-picking
nit-picky
noble
noisy
nomadic
nonchalant
noncommittal
nonconforming
nonplused
normal
nosey
nostalgic
nosey
nothing
noticed
nourished
nourishing
numb
numbed
nursed
nurturing
nuts
nutty
O
obedient
obeyed
objectified *
obligated
obliged
obliging
obliterated
oblivious
obnoxious
obscene
obscured
observant
observed
obsessed
obsessive
obstinate
obstructed
obvious
odd
off
off the hook
offended
offensive
officious
okay
old
old-fashioned
omnipotent
on
on call
on display
on time
one-upped
open
open-minded
opinionated
opportunistic
opposed
oppressed
optimistic
opulent
orderly
organized
ornery
orphaned
ostentatious
ostracized
ousted
out of balance
out of control
out of place
out of sorts
out of touch
out of tune
outdone
outgoing
outlandish
outnumbered
outraged
outrageous
outranked
outspoken
over
over-done
over-protected
over-ruled
over-controlled
overanxious
overbearing
overcome
overdrawn
overestimated
overjoyed
overloaded
overlooked
overpowered
oversensitive
over-simplified
overwhelmed
overworked
overwrought
owed
owing
owned
owning
owning
P
pacified
paid off
pain
pained
paired
paired-off
paired-up
pampered
panic
panicked
panicky
paralyzed
paranoid
pardoned
parsimonious
partial
passed by
passed off
passed over
passionate
passive
pastoral
paternal
pathetic
patient
patronized
peaceful
pedantic
pedestalized *
pedestrian
peeved
peevish
pell-mell
penetrable
penetrated
pensive
perceived
perceptive
peremptory
perfect
恐惧型依恋
人们在幼年时，在与父母互动中会形成一种情感上、心理上联结的固定模式，而这种模式也会在我们成年之后影响我们在亲密关系中与伴侣的互动，它也被称为“依恋”模式（attachment）。
拥有不同成长经历的人可能发展出不同的依恋模式。
心理学家Kim Bartholomew在前人的基础上，根据人们在关系中程度“焦虑”和“回避”程度，将成人的依恋模式进行分类。其中，焦虑程度高（即高焦虑）的人总是害怕对方会离开自己或不重视自己，而低焦虑的人则不会有这样的担心；而高回避的人容易对彼此间的亲密感到不适，而低回避的人，则乐于亲近他人。
根据以上标准，人们的依恋类型被分为：安全型、痴迷型、疏离型及恐惧型（Secure,Preoccupied, Di**issive, and Fearful）。
安全型（低焦虑、低回避）：既不担心被抛弃，也乐于亲密，与伴侣相互独立又相互依赖
痴迷型（高焦虑、低回避）：总是很担心被抛弃、渴望亲密，十分依赖伴侣
疏离型（低焦虑、高回避）：难以信任和依赖他人，对亲密感到不适，追求独立
恐惧型（高焦虑、高回避）：担心被抛弃，但又对亲密感到不适，既想要依赖又希望独立
对痴迷型、疏离型及恐惧型的人而言，亲密关系都会在某种程度上让他们感到不安，这也就不奇怪，这三类依恋模式都被学者们认为是“非安全型”的。
今天我们就来了解下“恐惧型依恋”。
恐惧型依恋只是一种称呼，它用来形容某种表现的一个名词，并不是对人格做价值判断，所以以下内容仅仅指向某段时间内的某种行为倾向，而不是个人长期的特质。
一、恐惧型依恋人群会一直处于“靠近—离开”的状态。
当遇到想接近的人时，会将注意力放在对方身上，并逐渐靠近。但是一旦真的有可能接触，意识到对方可能关注自己，反而会立刻产生深深的压力感，为了逃避这种感受，会选择冷漠推开，推开以后又苦恼不应该这么做，又再次靠近，再推开，陷入挣扎之中。
二、负面运作模式。
对事件的预期，并使用认知解释——心理学中也称作“运作模式”。
负面运作模式也可以理解为——“习惯性负面预期，然后进行消极认知，并完成自我实现预言”，也就是说，在面对不确定事物时，本能的、条件反射似的先产生负面情绪，然后用认知去解释，寻找最坏的结果并促使其发生。
三、习得性无助。
不认为自己具有吸引对方的魅力，觉得自己不值得被爱。认为别人对自己的爱是需要条件的。想获得对方的青睐，自己必须付出很多，表现的很出众才行。
这种过度寻求保证的表现行为会让对方感到不适，并且自己也会在犹豫和怀疑中提前抽身离开。随着多次对这种亲密关系的无助感进行强化，最终变成了习得性无助，习惯性使自己进入无力状态。
四、低表达性。
很少描述自己的感受和需要，习惯以敷衍和若无其事掩饰自己内心的不安，如在社交工具中会不断的删除已输入的内容，最后放弃沟通，给人留下迟钝或者防御的印象。
即使当面谈话，也不会主动将话题引入深处，只会流于表面，谈一些自以为安全的话题，所以与他们交流平淡、浅薄、毫无乐趣。
发生冲突时，其并不是通过心平气和的沟通来解决问题，相反，会用疏远来表达不满，而这种疏远对亲密关系又极具破坏性。
恐惧型依恋与一个人内心隐秘的“羞耻感”有很大的关系。
因此，如果你是恐惧型依恋的人，想要做出改变，那么如何应对羞耻感是十分关键的一步。
你可以通过改变对过去的叙述来改变自己对过去的看法，减少自己所感受到的羞耻。
比如，你可以回顾儿时的经历（可以是文字记录也可以在脑海中回忆），试着不去将父母忽视和冷漠看作是自己的错，找到并赋予这段经历其他可能的原因——可能是当时家庭条件不允许等等。
你可以试着去释放和表达那些被羞耻感所压抑的情绪。
比如，当对方不接自己**的时候，你可以尝试着先对自己说出当下的感受——“ta没接我**，这让我感到很担心/害怕”，而不是急忙压抑感受而疏远对方。
其次，自己要好好爱自己。照顾好自己的身体和情绪，是自己对自己负责的表现，也是维持良好恋爱、夫妻关系的基础。没有一个人的原生家庭是完美无缺的，我们需要做的是积极面对，爱自己，才能爱身边的每个人。
最后，要清楚真正的安全感是自己给予自己的，不是他人给予的。对方的承诺只能给你暂时的安全感。学会接受自己的一切，接受生活中的一切。相信依靠自己能够解决生活中的所有问题。你只有对自己有信心，才能降低恐惧感，才能体会到切切实实的安全感。
di**issive用法
di**issive[dis'misiv]
adj. 表示拒绝或放弃的, 轻视的
此单词属于使用最频繁的20000个英文单词，是海词推荐用户应该学会的1星畅通词汇。
1.a di**issive manner
盛气凌人的样子
2.A di**issive shrug.
轻蔑地耸了耸肩
3.Her manner was coldly di**issive.
她态度冷淡，不屑一顾。
4.A di**issive gesture, tone of voice, shrug of the shoulders
表示轻蔑的手势、语调、一耸肩
5.Reviewers were di**issive, and the play closed within a week.
由於评论界持否定态度，该剧上演不到一周便停止了。
6.She **iled, amused and faintly di**issive, gesturing to the robe on his arm.
她绕有兴趣地笑笑，略为高傲地指指他手臂上的睡袍。
7.They partner with the state, even when they are di**issive of its bureaucracy.
他们同国家合作，即使他们也看不惯政府的****。
8.She might have been less di**issive of my talents if he could have seen my latest achievements.
如果她看到我最近的成就, 她也许就不会那么小看我的才干了。
9.While Ballard and Smith reminisce warmly, some younger Australians are di**issive of any emotional ties to Britain.
当巴拉德和史密斯陶醉于往事之中时，一些年轻的澳大利亚拒绝承认任何与英国之间的感情纽带。
10.After winning back-to-back best actor awards for Philadelphia and Forrest Gumphe is refreshingly casual, even di**issive of his Oscar prospects.
虽然好莱坞一致看好他将再度因此片获得奥斯卡奖提名，但汤姆汉克斯本人却不以为然，完全不在乎自己是否能获得提名。
posture 和gesture的区别
posture和gesture的区别：意思不同、用法不同、侧重点不同
一、意思不同
1.posture意思：n. (坐立的)姿势; 态度; 看法; 立场; 处理方式; v. 故作姿态; 装样子;
2.gesture意思：n. 手势; 姿势; 示意动作; (表明感情或意图的)姿态，表示; v. 做手势; 用手势表示; 用
二、用法不同
1.posture用法：表示人或事物的名称。
例句：
Only humans have a natural upright posture.
只有人类才有自然直立的姿势。
2.gesture用法：可以做主语、宾语、同位语、表语 、定语、状语、补语。
例句：
Japanese don't use as much gesture as Europeans.
日本人使用手势没有欧美人那样多。
三、侧重点不同
1.posture侧重点：posture强调整个身体的姿势。
2.gesture侧重点：gesture主要指用于示意的手势或其他肢体动作。
你再优秀也有人对你不屑一顾,你再不堪也会有人视你为生命 翻译成英语
Outstanding as you may be, someone sees you as dust; menial as you may be, someone sees you equal to his life.
楼上是机翻的，狗屁不通好吗。。。
